How to be a Successful Mentor: Just Show Up
Longtime Franklin County Children Services mentor Claude Russell III says the secret to successful mentoring is simple: just show up. It’s all about being together and building a relationship. “Mentees just want your time,” he says. “They just want to be in your presence and see a person who cares. That is so easy to do.” Mr. Russell, a Toledo native and OSU alum, has been an active part of FCCS’s Simba Mentor program which just celebrated its 36th anniversary. Simba is a culturally and gender specific mentoring program for African-American boys and African-American men. “The love and the acceptance and the warmth that I’ve received in being a mentor has been unmatched,” said Mr. Russell, who recognizes that his life has been endlessly enriched by his longtime mentees - and now extended family - Seth (24) and Sebastian (18). Never forgetting the impact his mentors made on him as he was growing up, Mr. Russell wanted to pay this forward when he joined the Simba program....